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Do's
& Don'ts In Thailand
Getting
Along In Thailand
Thailand is known for its tolerance and hospitality, and
the average tourist will have no
difficulty in adjusting to the local customs All the same,
as when coming into any unfamiliar society, a visitor
may find
it helpful to be aware of certain do's and don't's, and
thus avoid making accidental misunderstanding.
Basically, most of these are simply a matter of common sense
and good manners not really all that different
from the way one would behave in one's own country but a
few are special enough to be pointed out.
The
Monarchy
The Thai people have a deep traditional reverence for their
Royal Family, and a visitor should also be careful to show
respect for the King, the Queen, and the Royal Children.
In a cinema, for example, a portrait of the King is shown
during the playing of the royal anthem, and the audience
is expected to stand. When attending some public event at
which a member of the Royal Family is present, the best
guide as to know how to behave is probably to watch the
crowd and do what it does.
Religion
Thai
law has a number of special sections concerning religious
offences, and these cover not only Buddhism, the religion
of the majority of the people, but also any other faiths
represented in the kingdom. It is, for instance, unlawful
to commit any act, by any means whatsoever, to an object
or a place of religious worship of any community in a manner
likely to insult the religion. Similarly, "whoever causes
any disturbance at an assembly lawfully engaged in the performance
of religious worship of religious ceremonies" is subject
to punishment, as well as "whoever dresses or uses a symbol
showing that he is a monk or novice, holyman or clegyman
of any religion unlawfully in order to make another person
believe he is such person."
In less
legal language, here are a few tips on what to do and what
not to do on a visit to a religious place:
- Dress
neatly. Do not go topless, or in shorts, or other unsuitable
attire. If you look at the Thais around you, you will
see the way they would prefer you to be dressed which,
in fact, is probably not very different from the way you
would dress in a similar place in your own country.
- It
is all right
to wear shoes while walking around the compound of a Buddhist
temple, but not inside the chapel where the principal
Buddha image is kept. Do not worry about dirt when you
have to take them off, the floors of such places are usually
clean.
- In a
Muslim mosque, men should wear hats and women should be
well-covered with slacks or a long skirt, a longsleeved
blouse buttoned to the neck, and a scarf over the hair.
All should remove their shoes before entering the mosque
and should not be present if there is a religious gathering.
- Buddhist
monks are forbidden to touch or to be touched by a woman
or to accept anything from the hand of one. If a woman
has to give anything to a monk or novice, she first hands
it to a man, who then
presents it. Or in the case of a woman who wants to present
it with her hand, the monk or novice will spread out a
piece of saffron robe or handerchief in front of him,
and the woman will lay down the material on the robe which
is being held at one end by the monk or novice.
- All
Buddha images, large or small, ruined or not, are regarded
as sacred objects. Therefore, do not climb up on one to
take a photograph, or generally speaking, do anything
that might show a lack of respect.
Social
Customs
The don'ts of Thai social behaviour are less clearly defined
than these concerning the monarchy or religion, especially
in a city like Bangkok where western customs are better
known and more widely accepted. However, what is acceptable
in Bangkok may not be in the countryside where the old ways
are still prevalent. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
- Thais
do not normally shake hands when they greet one another,
but instead press the palms
together in a prayer like gesture called a wai. Generally,
a younger person wais an elder, who returns it. Watch
how the Thais do it, and you will soon learn.
- It is
considered rude to point your foot at a person, so try
to avoid doing so when sitting opposite anyone, and following
the conception that the foot is a low limb;
do
not point your foot to show anything to anyone but use
your finger instead.
- Thais
regard the head as the highest part of the body both literally
and figuratively. As a result, they
do
not approve of touching anyone on that part of the body,
even in a friendly gesture. Similarly, if you watch Thais
at a social gathering, you will notice that young people
go to considerable lengths to keep their heads lower than
those of the elder ones, to avoid giving the impression
of "looking down" on them. This is not always possible,
of course, but it is the effort that counts.
- Public
displays of affection between men and women are frowned
upon. You may see some very westernised young Thai couples
holding hands, but that is the extent of the displaying
of affection in this polite society.
- Losing
your temper, especially in public, will more than likely
get you nowhere. The Thais think that such displays denote
poor manners, and you are more able to get what you want
by keeping calm and concealing your emotions.
- Do not
be surprised if you are addressed by your first name:
for instance, Mr. Bob or Miss Maryinstead of by your surname.
This is because Thais refer to one another in this manner,
usually with the title "Khun" (Mr., Mrs. or miss) in front.
Follow the customs of the country as far as possible,
and you will make more friends during your stay.
Special
Advice
1. Beware
of unauthorized people who offer their services as guides.
Contact the Tourism Authority of Thailand (TAT)'s counters
for all tourist information. The TAT's counters are located
in the Arrival Hall of the Bangkok International Airport;
at Terminal 1 Tel: 523-8972-3, or at Terminal 2 Tel:
535-2669
from 08.00 to 24.00 hrs.; at the main office on
Ratchadamnoen Nok Avenue Tel: 281 -0422 during working
hours of 08.30 to 16.30 hrs.
2. Visitors
are advised to use the hotel taxi service at their hotel
if they do not know their way around or cannot speak the
local language.
3. Observe
all normal precautions as regards to personal safety,
as well as the safety of your belongings. Walking alone
on quiet streets or deserted areas is not recommended.
Be sure that all your valuables -money, jewellery, and
airline tickets- are properly protected from loss.
4. Use
the service of only registered travel agents.
5. Visitors
needing assistance relating to safety, unethical practices,
or other matters, please call the Tourist Assistance Centre
immediately (Tel: 281 -5051, 282-8129) or contact the
Tourist Police (Tel: 678-6800- 9 or 1699)
6. Penalties
for drug offences are very severe in Thailand, do not
get yourself involved with drugs.
7. Please
drop your garbage into a waste container. The Bangkok
Metropolitan Administration is now strictly enforcing
the law in an effort to keep the city clean and healthy.
The fine (maximum 2,000 baht) will be imposed on a person
who spits, discards cigarette stubs, or drops rubbish
in public areas.
Shopping
Advice
A great variety of souvenirs made from local products are
available at fair prices in Thailand. For those who have
not got very much time and do not want to bother bargaining,
certain items are available at fixed prices in several department
stores while a bargain can be made at small shops or with
street vendors. Some of the preferred items include silk
products, leather products, silverware, ceramics, and wood
products. Another favourite is jewellery for which Thailand
is renowned for craftsmanship and relatively low prices.
In a bid to provide impressive shopping experiences for
tourists, especially in purchasing jewellery, here is some
useful advice.
1 Disregard
all stranger's offers of free assistance or services,
especially in purchasing jewellery, or you might find
out later that you have made your purchases at relatively
much higher prices than what it should be because the
shop owners will have to pay a 10-30% commission to the
one who attracts customers to their shops and have it
added to the jewellery prices.
2. Make
your purchases just to satisfy yourself, your relatives,
or friends. Do not expect to gain profit from the goods
because jewellery prices change in accordance with times
and places of purchase. The jewellery prices vary owing
to different values and popularity.
3. Compare
and negotiate the prices of jewellery of the same types
and sizes in several different shops before making a decision
to buy so, as to be assured of possessing the goods at
fair and reasonable prices.
4. Please
be informed that any claim made by the shop owner that
the purchases could be refunded at Thai embassies, consulates,
or other government agencies abroad is not true nor practical.
5. Make
sure that all documents such as receipts, quality certificates,
and your customer slip (if paid by credit card) contain
all negotiated data, be it the prices in Thai or foreign
currencies, or name and address of the shop which will
be beneficial should any problem emerge later.
6. In
general for the jewellery trade in Thailand, all purchased
goods cannot be returned. However, in case of a possible
refund, 25-30% of sold prices will be deducted as a cost
of damage. Some reputable companies will take back jewellery
for a full refund, although usually some have a time limit,
such as 30 days, is placed upon that return privilege.
WHOM
Crisis
Many wildlife species are becoming extinct, all because
of human's insatiable greed. This sad trend will continue
unabated unless every effort is made to check or reverse
the process. We must together put a stop to all these harmful
practices and cruelties.
The only
place where wild animals belong is their natural habitation.
You can
help protect wildlife in all its forms.
1. Keep
the environment clean. Styrofoam, plastics, and other
synthetics thrown into the sea or discarded in the forest
are harmful or even deadly to animals. When styrofoam
is eaten by turtles, its buoyancy keeps them from diving
and they starve to death.
2. Do
not support all manners of wild animal abuse. Never buy
and keep wild animals as pets in which condition they
are never meant to be. Never purchase any products or
souvenirs made from wild animals including reptiles like
crocodiles, snakes, moniter lizards, and also turtle shell
and ivory.
3. Avoid patronizing local restaurants and other public
places that specialise in or serve wild animal delicacies.
It is against the law to slaughter wildlife for food in
Thailand, especially many endangered species. Take no
part in this act.
SOME USEFUL THAI PHRASES
| English |
Thai |
| Good
morning, |
Sa-wad-di |
| Good
evening, |
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|
| Good
afternoon, |
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| Good
night, |
.
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| Hello,
Good-bye |
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| Mr./Miss/Mrs./
|
Khun |
| Yes
|
Chai
|
| No
|
Mai |
| How
are you? |
Khun-sa-bai-di-ru |
| Very
well. |
Sa-bai-di. |
| Thank
you |
Khop-khun |
| I
am going to ... |
Chan-ja-pai
... |
| How
much do you want? |
Khun-tong-kan-thao-rai |
| Too
much |
Mak-pai |
| Too
expensive |
Paeng-pai |
| Any
discount? |
Lot-ra-kha-noi-dai-mai
|
| Understand?
|
Khao-jai-mai
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| English |
Thai |
| I
don't understand |
Chan
-mai -khao -jai |
| Please
speak slowly |
Prot-put-cha-cha |
| No,
I won't go |
Chan-mai-pai |
| Please
drive slowly |
Prot-khap-cha-cha |
| Be
careful |
Ra-wang |
| Turn
to the right |
Lieo-khwa |
| Turn
to the left |
Lieo-sai |
| Drive
straight on |
Khap-trong-pai |
| Slow
down |
Cha-cha |
| Stop |
Yut |
| How
much is this? |
Ra-kha-thao-rai |
| Please
wrap it for me. |
Ho-hai-duai |
| I'm
sorry |
Chan-sia-jai |
| Excuse
me, Pardon me |
Kho -thot |
|
Very good |
Di-mak |
| Not
good |
Mai-di |
| Good
Luck |
Chok
di |
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NUMBERS
| 1 |
Neung |
11 |
Sip-et |
60 |
Hok-sip |
| 2 |
Song |
12 |
Sip-song |
70 |
Jet-sip |
| 3 |
Sam |
13 |
Sip-sam |
100 |
Neung-roi |
| 4 |
Si |
16 |
Sip-hok |
150 |
Neung-roi-ha-sip |
| 5 |
Ha |
20 |
Yi-sip |
200 |
Song-roi |
| 6 |
Hok |
21 |
Yi-sip-et |
500 |
Ha-roi |
| 7 |
Jet |
25 |
Yi-sip-ha |
1,000 |
Nueg-phan |
| 8 |
Paet |
30 |
Sam-sip |
10,000 |
Neung-mun |
| 9 |
Kao |
40 |
Si-sip |
100,000 |
Neung-saen |
| 10 |
Sip |
50 |
Ha-sip |
1,000,000 |
Neugn-lan |
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